Leading Myself

My views on leadership have dramatically changed since I started this class.  Above all else, the speakers and readings have just exposed me to all types of leadership.  I knew there were different kinds of leaders, but I did not know how many strategies or studies that have been done on leadership.  I have come to believe that anyone can become a leader; it would just take a bit more of an effort for some.  I learned that some are born leaders, some become leaders and some have leadership thrust upon them. 

I believe the most powerful type of leadership is authentic leadership.  Leaders that are authentic have such passion and can truly do whatever they want to achieve.

I've also learned that leadership is difficult; more difficult than I thought.  My biggest problem to overcome will be accepting the fact that not everyone will like you or your idea.  I've always been the kind of person that wants to make everyone happy, and when leading change everyone is not going to be happy.  People do not like change, and I just need to get over it.

From day to day, I have noticed opportunities to become a leader.  I've noticed that everybody seems to "talk the talk," but does not "walk the walk."  Other people will not take the initiative, I have to be that one person.  I've also learned to show my excitement more.  I used to keep all my emotions inside, making me seem unrealistic, which is not a good leadership quality.  People like someone that they can relate with.

I'm also the kind of person that loves being busy, so this balance of work and family that everyone keeps talking about makes me extremely nervous, yet excited! 

Another lesson I learned from the speakers was to raise your voice.  This is an area I have never been especially superb at, but I'm working on it!

I'm so glad that I decided to take this class.  It has definitely opened up my eyes to the real world.  Along with opening eyes, this class opens doors.  I'm thrilled to be getting a mentor, because at this point in my life I could never ask someone to do that for me.  I believe this class is giving me great opportunities that I plan on taking full advantage of.